In many quarters, "feminism" is a still dirty word with lots of negative baggage attached to it.
Most men, at least in my experience, seem to feel threatened by feminist ideology, and by feminists themselves. Even other women lash out against those of us who fight for gender equality, gender parity and a world in which women are not trafficked, abused, beaten, raped, tortured and murdered simply because we were born female.
Being a feminist can be a tough row to hoe.
So when I opened the email below from Don Hazen (left), I have to tell you, it made my day. As I read it, I thought to myself: here’s a guy who really "gets it.”
Hazen is executive director of the Independent
Media Institute and executive editor of AlterNet, an award-winning news magazine and online community that
creates original journalism and amplifies the best of hundreds of other independent media sources.
AlterNet’s aim is to inspire action and
advocacy on the environment, human rights and civil liberties, social
justice, media, health care issues, and more. Hazen is also the former publisher
of Mother Jones magazine, an accomplished book editor.
He holds an MA in counseling from the University of Massachusetts and a BA in politics from Princeton University.
Here’s what he has to say about the state of women in journalism:
Some time ago, the Harnisch Foundation awarded AlterNet a grant of
$15,000 for our Gender Byline Project if we matched that amount from our
readers, especially those who are on Facebook.
The reason for the project: In 2011, male writers still dominate the
public discourse and have a much higher percentage of bylines in most
corporate magazines online and off, even in progressive media. All of
the money in this project would pay for content written by women.
Recently, Ms. Magazine started a campaign against the New Yorker
after the magazine went two full issues with only two or three
contributions by female writers, in a close to 150-page magazine.
It’s not just the New Yorker. January’s issue of Harpers has only three
out of 21 stories by women. The Nation’s latest print issue has four and
a half female bylines out of 17 articles. The Atlantic did a little
better, featuring five and a half female bylines, of 18 total stories.
Clearly, extra effort has to be invested in recruiting, assigning to,
and developing emerging women writers, especially in areas where they
are most underrepresented, such as politics, economics, and foreign
affairs. We want to invest money in doing that. But truth be told, we
have had a hard time raising this money. So far, only $4,000.
Please join us — Invest in women writers now.
Some of you, perhaps more our male readers, might wonder why gender
byline fairness is important, given all the other challenges we face.
It’s a fair question. But this is a personal issue for me and I think
it’s extremely important. I want to tell you why.
How I Became a Feminist
I want to tell you a personal story about my growing up. I became a
"feminist," or let’s say I had my "consciousness raised," as a young
child, although I didn’t quite know what that was at the time. I think I
My female cousin was the same age as I, and almost a sibling since our
families spent a lot of time together. As we grew, I started getting
messages about how I was supposed to act around her: protect her, open
the door for her, walk on the outside closer to the street. And there
were other, more subtle messages that made me angry, but I didn’t know
As only a child with a fierce, idealistic sense of right and wrong can
be, I tried to resist these messages without knowing what was really
going on. But not very successfully. What I knew in my heart then was
that my cousin was a better student than I, and much more talented as an
artist, a dancer, and in other ways. But to people around us, my
development – as the boy – seemed to be more important.
This pattern continued through high school and after. My uncle would
give my father cigars when I scored touchdowns during high school
football games, while my cousin would cheerlead in semi-obscurity. In
student government, I was the president and she the secretary. And when
my cousin wanted to go to law school, a conspiracy of her parents and
her then-boyfriend convinced her not to go at that point, despite the
fact that she was a superb student. Eventually her life took a
downswing, involving serious struggles, and I can see a line from those
first days when we were kids together.
Over the years it finally dawned on me why I was frustrated. I was being
unfairly deprived — deprived of the talents, the ideas, the
perspective of half of society. Often it was a point of view I very much
wanted. Women’s voices and writing provided a balance to the macho
orientation most successful boy students and athletes received when I
was growing up in America.
When I came of age in the early ’70s I discovered amazing women writers
— authors of sprawling, multi-layered novels like Marge Piercy and Sara
Davidson. I was introduced to the work of brilliant thinkers like
Dorothy Dinnerstein, Germaine Greer, and Shulamuth Firestone, whose
ideas and social critiques made infinite sense to me, more so than many
of the male thinkers did at that point.
The good news is, my cousin righted her life and went on to get her PhD.
And in my life, I have sought out women writers, hired them, assigned
them articles, because much of their writing and ideas have shaped me.
They’ve been fundamental to who I am and what I value.
So that is why I think battling the gender byline gap — and it still is
severe, we have tons of data to support it — is a key part of every
issue we care about, and a lynch pin to our future success in creating
the society we want. It’s important for men to get on board, because
currently we are being deprived.
If you agree, would you consider making a donation? Help us battle the gender byline gap today.
So I don’t know if men should be called feminists. That’s probably up to
women to decide. The important point is that despite the media hype
about women out-numbering men in college and grad schools, those with
the power and the big salaries in politics, business, and especially the
media, are still men. Here’s a reminder if anyone needs one: the U.S.
ranks 86th across the globe in the number of female elected officials.
Don’t you agree with me that that is pathetic?
Please, men and women, invest in our "gender byline gap"
project. All of the money will go to women writers. We would really like
to free up the matching money sitting in a bank account somewhere and
get it into the hands of women writers where it can do some good.
I just put my money where my mouth is and made a donation here. I hope you will do the same. Help give women around the world a greater voice, and so create a better, more balanced world.
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